Our occurrence topic this week is better Intercourse very we have been speaing frankly about… ideal sex we have ever endured! We’re joined by Autostraddle publisher, poet, and journalist Dani Janae once we enter into some passionate stories with an in-depth conversation with what makes good sex suitable. And we also spend a lot of the time on my sexual hang ups that I may or might not have actually done most manage come early july!

Arrive when it comes to lesbian movie-themed video game, remain when it comes down to coming.

SHOW NOTES

+
The 200 Greatest Lesbian+ Videos record
that Christina pulled the overall game from.

+ when you haven’t read Dani’s
Structure of a Mango
show you truly must.

+
This is actually the essay
We wrote in regards to the person I explore on the episode. Its just already been two years but so much has evolved!

+ the summertime has gone by therefore still stan Olivia Rodrigo. View the
«raw» songs video
.

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Dani:

The cat while the dog were in place so there had been cat and dog tresses every-where. Therefore, I found myself surely having an allergic response although we had been sex. Nevertheless climax had been like cook’s hug. It had been the right, best experience literally.

Christina:

I wonder if it is anything about the hives that really added a tiny bit

je ne sais quoi

to that orgasmic experience.

Theme track plays

Drew:

Welcome to

Wait, So Is This a romantic date?

Christina:


Wait, So Is This a Date?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast everything about, you thought it, online dating.

Drew:

Yay! I Favor matchmaking. I Am Drew Gregory. I am an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply basic trans gay person across the net and… I happened to be browsing state world, but it is really a lot more like L. A. and ny.

Christina:

I really like this globe trotting homosexual personality you are accepting right here in 2021.

Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s money for hard times.

Christina:

Yeah. I will be your own other number, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged loud homosexual on the net. Simply particular away here, authorship, getting gay, doing what we can every moment to try to work through this existence that we’re residing.

Drew:

You’re actually carrying it out. You are actually operating through that existence.

Christina:

Frankly, it really is all I’m able to do. That is all I have, it’s the only choice.

Drew:

I truly respect the attempt.

Christina:

The try to live?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Really, truly fearless of me to also attempt it. You aren’t completely wrong, you are not completely wrong. Are you willing to want to consider playing some game these days, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my Jesus, I’m therefore excited. Cannot wait observe what you have in my situation.

Christina:

I’m very happy you mentioned that as you positively need to say yes, for the reason that it’s part of this package we’ve produced here. So you might know about the fact on autostraddle.com, the internet site, there is a summary of 200 lesbian films.

Drew:

I know from it. I might have written it.

Christina:

Maybe you have. The things I have done is move a variety of 10 of the films. I’ve kept them to the most effective 50. I will give you the story key words as determined by users on IMDb and you are clearly planning to have to guess what flick really.

Drew:

Okay. I recently want the audience, anywhere you may be, to find out that I am not saying going to pull up record. I believe that is correct, am I assuming that’s correct in the way I must certanly be respecting the game?

Christina:

I think that is extremely polite and I also genuinely believe that’s reasonable. I also sorts of trust that goes end up being something that pops into their heads rather easy for you, I didn’t go also remaining.

Drew:

You will find an awful mind, but yes, i’ll make an effort to set folks up for reasonable objectives.

Christina:

Reasonable adequate.

Drew:

So if i really do effectively, it’s like type blow all of them out, and if I don’t prosper, they’ll be like, «Well, she talked about…» Anyways, continue. Let’s start this.

Christina:

Let’s beginning. I will start off with pretty general types and that I can get much more particular even as we get, because many of them are practically exactly what the film is within two terms. So weare going to just be sure to start off with a wider experience here.

Drew:

I favor it.

Christina:

Our basic film: medications may be the basic story term. Manhattan, nyc will be the second. Hate criminal activity is the third.

Drew:

Okay.

It Really Is All-around Me.

Christina:

Yes, it is! See, we knew you would certainly be able to do this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

I definitely understood you would be able to do this.

Drew:

In addition, I just have to let men and women know definitely probably the most underrated lesbian motion pictures, while need to view it. And Leisha Hailey where flick was my personal telephone back ground for a couple years. Very just a fun small fact there regarding of you.

Christina:

We like that. Okay, motion picture number 2. «unidentified grandfather,» body organ donor, cemetery, death of daughter. Oh, she actually is considering.

Drew:

I’m like i will certainly have this considering — delay, unfamiliar grandfather, loss of daughter, organ donor. Oh,

All About My Mom.

Christina:

Here truly, see.

Drew:

Someone else of my favorites.

Christina:

It is extremely thrilling to see things that folks choose are a story keyword that they need to move because of these flicks. I’m additionally maybe not reading some of the people which can be only lesbian for the reason that it looks kind of like a gimme.

Drew:

Which is how I built most of the number because if you look up lesbian motion pictures, everything you found had been the outdated Autostraddle list or some databases which are not really thorough, so I would in fact scroll through databases in the keywords of lesbian, lesbian making out, this stuff like women kissing, these things, in order to find movies where they may be maybe not thought of as a lesbian motion picture since they are a little more fascinating, or perhaps a little bit much less direct, that is certainly how I discovered many flicks which happen to be today about listing, thus back to where it started.

Christina:

Tune in, IMDb key words coming in convenient for everyone continuously. This package, men and women moved crazy on this one. So only gonna review some random words to you personally. Hey, whistling, lady, black colored sporting events bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on-the-job collision.

Drew:

On-the-job collision? Oh, I Imagined I Experienced it after which, well—

Christina:

Icy, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Due to the fact at first I happened to be attending state

Foxfire,

then again the at work accident switched myself right up. On the job accident.

Christina:

Do you need a few more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Pickup truck collisions through a fence.

Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It is far from.

Drew:

Because on the job collision might possibly be an extremely awful way of explaining that certain regarding the homosexual because you’re attempting to become not gayness, attempts to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate themselves. That’d end up being pretty extreme, but i did not understand utilizing the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this is tricking me personally upwards.

Christina:

Are you wanting a few more from me?

Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m certain its something that I’m simply not… Yeah, keep going.

Christina:

Mention of a school mortgage. These are typically so nuts.

Drew:

Hold off, maybe you’ve observed this motion picture?

Christina:

I’ve come across this flick.

Drew:

Could it possibly be untamed that I am not setting it up?

Christina:

It’s somewhat untamed. I am able to supply a year, if you’d like annually.

Drew:

In the event that you give me personally annually, We’ll definitely obtain it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 can be your 12 months.

Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know the goals.

Christina:

It will be the movie,

Certain Girls,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I truly believed vehicle accidents through a wall would allow you to get, but In addition just love these individuals only taking out nouns and just being like, «male.» Is the fact that what you believe?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s a fantastic film. I must see that once again.

Christina:

It really is. It really is a good movie.

Drew:

Yeah, it really is a really great flick.

Christina:

All right, all of our next movie. Kissing whilst having intercourse.

Drew:

The greatest method of both, maybe, in ways.

Christina:

Seduction, dude ranch.

Drew:

Will it be

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. Therefore I was actually like, «Okay, you have got to have that afterwards one.» Another one I became browsing present had been — «nipples» ended up being the truly plainly showcased. And I had been like, «Sure, that is element of that film.»

Drew:

God,

Desert Hearts.

You know how absolutely all of these annoying people available to choose from wanting to end up being Shane. Sorry, I mean, if you’re wanting to end up being Shane, I take you. But myself, my personal irritating thing usually i am attempting to be Cay. Cay in that flick is a lot like definitely just who i believe of while the sort of lesbian that I want to end up being.

Christina:

Yeah, that is true, can confirm. All right, are we prepared in regards to our subsequent one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

12 Months—

Drew:

Hold off, no, i’ve yet another thing to state about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Certain.

Drew:

Following finally time I re-watched it over the summertime, it type of delivered me personally into a slight spiral, and I texted this earlier semi-closeted one who I had kind of begun tentatively attempting to big date or big date whatever, and that has vanished for 30 days, and I had abadndoned because I don’t beg individuals date me. But i recently had been love, «Okay.» We viewed

Desert Hearts

and I also had been want, «i suppose perhaps sometimes folks have their particular internalized whatever.» And that I texted their and I also stated, «When we never meet, i believe you are going to regret it.» And now we did meet, to ensure that’s what

Desert Hearts

may do to you personally.

Christina:

Wow, that’s an extremely effective endorsement.

Drew:

We most likely shouldn’t have satisfied. We probably needs merely let it end up being. But anyways, shifting, after that movie.

Christina:

Our very own after that movie, metaphysics, world during opening credits — exactly what that means, it is for you to decide — high-school football, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you decide to go.

Drew:

That’s another great film. I really like that I keep becoming astonished by this record that I had a really strong submit standing. It isn’t really my personal ranking, but I did have a large say in the ranking and I think it’s great.

Christina:

Yeah. I simply desire to be clear to you personally and all of our audience — once more, I selected from top 50, very they are good ones. From the great types, they are great people. I know Drewshould continually state this is certainly a fantastic motion picture after every one, but—

Drew:

They may be great films, you guys should enjoy them.

Christina:

All right. Short dress with heels.

Drew:

Like it.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini dress with shoes.

Drew:

What i’m saying is, would it be

Blockers?

Christina:

It is far from. That might be also effortless, I think, for

Blockers.

Drew:

Really Don’t keep in mind any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine rear nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Hold off a second. Okay, what one minute. Okay, penis blocked, mini skirt, female backside nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break dancing.

Drew:

Could it be

Bound?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

No, I would love a rest dancing scene.

Christina:

I adore a rest moving world in

Bound.

Drew:

Some slack moving world.

Christina:

I’ll present: English woman abroad.

Drew:

English girl abroad? This will be a differnt one where personally i think I certainly should get it.

Christina:

I’ll need to present a fairly clear any sooner or later, with the intention that’s going to assist.

Drew:

Okay, provide myself a clear one.

Christina:

Undercover agent.

Drew:

Is it

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is really not

D.E.B.S.

Its next to

D.E.B.S.,

form of movie sensible. Here’s a differnt one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, wait, there is not that many genre films.

Christina:

There aren’t, that is correct.

Drew:

Undercover broker. Well, maybe they’re with the phrase, can it be

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think-so. Undercover agent.

Christina:

Do you want the 12 months?

Drew:

I thought that… Sure.

Christina:

The season is actually 2017.

Drew:

Undercover broker.

Christina:

I’m so sorry. You are going to feel so dumb once I state the subject with this one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I am really sorry about this, but that is type of exactly the means the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it isn’t

Carol.

Drew:

No, it claims 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I know that. It isn’t

Carol.

Drew:

But there is an undercover — the guy, this is where I became considering. Okay, what is it? How come it make myself feel dumb?

Christina:

It’s

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, which is into the leading 50?

Christina:

Really. I am aware.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

All right. Offering four a lot more, you ready?

Drew:

I really don’t believe foolish because that one I… after all, I think

Atomic Blonde

is fun, but I don’t imagine it really is great. That will never be within my individual leading 50. I actually do want worldwide to understand that i understand that

Carol

arrived in 2015. My personal mind damage. I recently wish the whole world to find out that. Anyways, carry on.

Christina:

The whole world now knows that, the record was mirrored. All righty: cafe, sense of odor, novelist, regard to a hamburger, regard to Larry King, based on memoir, alcoholic, theft, woman wears glasses, living alone, ruining proof.

Drew:

The mention of Larry King is actually—

Christina:

Its a really unusual one.

Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, damaging research.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, can it be

Is It Possible To Previously Forgive Me Personally?

Christina:

It’s.

Drew:

I had to develop to redeem myself personally. I found myself actually in a slump truth be told there.

Christina:

You nailed it. In my opinion you’ve got there, I think you absolutely had gotten indeed there. Fine, three more, all of our leading three. I believe these people are going to be possible for you because i am aware you.

Drew:

Great, ok, well…

Christina:

I know, but i am claiming, isn’t it time?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Psychological state, medicine overdose.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Higher.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, girl group.

Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, I know

Foxfire.

Christina:

I happened to be like, «Oh, she’s going to just keep guessing

Foxfire

until I just offer her

Foxfire.»

Drew:

The key usually I favor

Foxfire

and I also hold planning to remember

Foxfire.

Christina:

After all, whomst in our midst?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Okay. That One, one among them is actually—

Drew:

This is the finally one?

Christina:

This is basically the finally one. This will be the last one. Church, assertion, family members relationships.

Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

Will it be

But I Am a Cheerleader?

Christina:

It is, yes.

Drew:

Certainly. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.

Christina:

Jokes on laughs. To ensure was actually the game i am phoning, how good really does Drew understand Lesbian Movies???

Drew:

I favor exactly how great we’re discovering names for the video games.

Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that we also had written that from inside the name of a Bing Doc, the thing that was I thinking? It doesn’t also look good during my Google Docs.

Drew:

I got a very good time and I also’m really happy that i eventually got to tell the listeners about every motion pictures that they should view. And in addition we’ll put the number in program notes.

Christina:

Definitely.

Drew:

I would declare that record has become at a place where i do believe you’d get one thing from enjoying all 200 flicks. The most important version of record, there was clearly some stuff on there that I happened to be not too pleased about. There ‘s still items that i do believe that I don’t yourself but i do believe that overall, there is a particular quality control next newest posting that i’m very pleased with and I think they are all worth seeing.

Christina: